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Hitched | Dave+Stacey

When I met with Dave and Stacey for the first time they were having kittens...literally. We had one of the most efficient first consultations I’ve had thus far.  I remember leaving wondering whether we had spoken about everything we needed to, panicking a little because the meeting wasn’t even half the time I usually spent with my couples.  I must have perfected the art of a short-and-sweet meeting, because it all turned good in the end. 

Before we knew it, the day had arrived.

I had virtually zero sleep the night before as my nerves kicked into gear - that’s right, we photographers get nervous too.  Not even two large whiskeys sent me off. 

When I arrived at the hotel, Stacey and Lou (Stacey’s singular bridesmaid) were the coolest customers I’ve seen.  Game on!  She was ready. 

Dave on the other hand was pretty nervous, and I don’t blame him.  Standing up in front of a room full of people - regardless of how well you know them - is cause enough to make anyone nervous.  He’s not a man of many words and doesn’t wear his heart in his sleeve, but the words he said during his speech were definitely the right ones.  

I always come away from a wedding feeling a mixture of emotions, but mainly happiness because I’ve been able to spend a day with a bunch of people who all love one another, and you can’t help but have some of that rub off on you.  

Seriously guys, thank you so much for having me there and being able to share in your day, and capture those moments for you all! 

Only one more to go now...

until next time,

R x

 

Hygge Inspired Autumn/Winter Wedding

I feel very blessed to know and work alongside some fantastic people; local wedding suppliers who get me and my aesthetic.  It's one of the things I love most about my job. 

This week we brought to life a Scandinavian/Hygge inspired wedding shoot at the East Cliff Cottage Hotel in Bournemouth (you may have seen my first attempt at a Facebook live video).  It's a lovely little place, tucked just behind the main east cliff road, perfectly suited to this style of shoot, and would be an ideal location for an intimate wedding reception. 

A few years ago, Rob and I took a holiday in Copenhagen and instantly fell in love with the city, the people, their immense style and their way of life.  Last month, we flew out to Stockholm to continue our new found Scandinavian obsession, and the same feelings came flooding back.  It was clear what I wanted to do with out next collaborative shoot, and I knew just the right people to be involved in it. 

I delved into my copy of 'The Little Book of Hygge' and read up on the Hygge manifesto.  It has ten points, which cover the basics to what Hygge is all about. 

  1. Atmosphere - Turn down the lights.
  2. Presence - Be here now. Turn of the phones.
  3. Pleasure - Coffee, chocolate, cookies, cakes, candy. Gimme! Gimme! Gimme!
  4. Equality - 'We' over 'me'. Share the tasks and the airtime.
  5. Gratitude - Take it in. This might be as good as it gets. 
  6. Harmony - It's not a competition. We already like you. There is no need to brag about your achievements. 
  7. Comfort - Get comfy. Take a break. It's all about relaxation. 
  8. Truce - No drama. Let's discuss politics another day. 
  9. Togetherness - Build relationships and narratives. 'Do you remember the time we...?'
  10. Shelter - This is your tribe. This is a place of peace and security.

I'm pretty sure these points can be applied to literally every aspect of your life, including your wedding.  My hope from this post is that you can take some inspiration from our combined effort, and apply it to your autumn/winter weddings, wherever you have them.  We also wanted to show you that there is so much more scope out there for styling your autumn/winter wedding - it doesn't all have to be about red, silver and white.  

There is so much choice out there and available to us nowadays, it's so easy to forget or look passed the things we already have.  

Incorporate items you have at home.  

Most of this shoot was pieced together using things we all had in our own homes, and they came together perfectly.  You don't need to spend thousands of pounds on things you will never use again.  Why be wasteful when you already have everything you need.  Or at least buy something you will re-use or keep for the future.  

None of your guests will care an iota about the money you've spent/not spent on your wedding day - it's your wedding, not theirs!  What they will care about is how much love you've put into it and how much fun everyone else is having, the atmosphere on the day, the general feeling of love and togetherness everyone has on the day.  Believe me, I've been at weddings where I've felt part of the family and I've been at those where you feel very isolated.  You don't want it to be the latter. 

Okay, that's enough from me for now.  

Here's some suppliers you might want to be a part of your day. 

  1. For perfect venue decor and styling - http://www.lovebydesignweddings.co.uk
  2. For stunning floral arragements - http://www.with-love-from.co.uk
  3. For beautiful wedding cakes - http://www.thesweetsuitedorset.co.uk
  4. And for modern and relaxed wedding photography - ME!! ;)

Until next time,

R x

Collaboration - Chameleon Bridal Boutique and Love By Design Weddings

It's amazing how quickly things can turn around.

This time last year, I was very close to throwing in the RGW PHOTOS towel for very personal reasons.  The very same reasons that made me think twice about that decision.  Over the last few months, I have seen quite dramatic changes to the way I work and the people I now work with.  

It's blowing me away!

I now have a little team of suppliers who I collaborate with on a regular basis - who'd have thought I would ever be saying that?!  We share similar ideas about the direction we want our individual businesses to go in, and we all feel the same way about working alongside one another.  One of these suppliers, as you must be well aware of by now, is Rachel from Love By Design Weddings.  

We have worked together with Natasha - With Love From - on a coastal chic inspired photo shoot - which you can read more about here - and since that worked out so well, we now work together  at Chameleon Bridal Boutique, where she dresses the windows.  I don't get involved with the actual window dressing, Rachel needs no help with that.  She adds a theme to the windows once a month, giving the stunning bridal wear an extra something special.  It helps bring them to life and hopefully gives future newlyweds some inspiration as to how to dress their wedding venue.  

I could go on and on about how good her products are, but to see them for yourself is the best way, so here's some photos from my last trip to Chameleon.  This month's theme is 'Travel', and everytime I look at these photos, it makes me want to fly away somewhere. 

Where is your dream destination?

Until next time, 

R x

Spoilt For Choice - Choosing Your Perfect Wedding Venue

One of the things I love the most about living in Bournemouth - and subsequently running my business from here - is being surrounded by so many stunning places of natural beauty.  We have the New Forest, Moors Valley Country Park, The Jurassic Coast, The Purbecks, Brownsea Island, and so many more.  On top of that, an almost endless list of venues that fill these areas, which you couples get to choose from. 

Basically, we are spoilt for choice. 

For me as a wedding photographer, it is one of the most amazing things, to firstly be invited into a couple's special day, but on top of that, to get to work within these venues - that's just incredible. 

I've been very fortunate in the (comparably) short time I've been a wedding photographer, by having a portfolio that is now made up of completely different venues for each couple I've photographed - with the exception of just two.  Next year also, the venues I'll be covering weddings at are all different.  So far I've worked at the following: The Legacy Rose and Crown Hotel, Merley House, Passford House Hotel, Poole Guildhall (twice), Bryanston School, Les Bouviers.  This year I still have weddings at Bournemouth Town Hall, Dudsbury Country Club, St. Laurence Church in Upwey (with reception and evening at Upwey Village Hall and The Old Ship Inn), The Holiday Inn - Southampton, and Gorwell Barn, Abbotsbury.  

Next year I've got a growing list of fabulous venues which include: The Hilton - Bournemouth,The Italian Villa, The Old Hall - Ely, The George Hotel - Huntingdon, The Sibson Inn, The Chine Hotel, Newbury Rugby Club, The Orangery Suite, Spitbank Fort, Kingston Maurward, Barford Park and RAC Woodcote - Epsom to name a few.  I'm absolutely loving the variety.  

I've always been a bit of a dreamer, and was always told that unless you win the lottery, you are the builder of your own dreams.  I stand by this.  So in light of this, when I first started down this road of becoming a photographer, I purposely made a 'wish list' of venues/types of weddings I think of as my dream list to photograph.  

The List - or at least a portion of - in no particular order:

  • Same-sex weddings 
  • Bournemouth Beach wedding (obviously)
  • Kew Gardens (and any other botanical gardens)
  • London/Urban wedding
  • Theme weddings (especially Star Wars!)
  • Destination weddings - New York would be amazing (because I LOVE to travel)
  • Festival weddings
  • Barn weddings
  • Cinema/Theatre wedding
  • Forest wedding

Specific venues would include: The Barbican Centre, The Southbank National Theatre, The Sky Garden (Walkie Talkie building), The Shard, so basically most well known buildings in London. 

Anyway, I digress.  Getting back on topic, I suppose what I'm trying to say is; I fully understand the dilemma couples must face when it comes to planning their wedding.  They're a political minefield anyway, but to add on top of that choosing where to hold the day can be (but hopefully won't be) a nightmare.  

I remember planning our wedding.  Rob and I did the guest list first, then sorted everything else out around that.  We live in Bournemouth, most of Rob's friends and family who came live in fairly close proximity, so the only challenge was whether we held it here or nearer my family.  Both options caused the similar issues - namely travelling distances.  So we thought about it some more and came to the conclusion; it wasn't about making our families happy, but rather about making us happy.  So we landed on London and had a bloody good long weekend there.  So that would be my advice to all of you future newlyweds; choose somewhere that makes the both of you happy, reflects you as a couple and the guests that join you will enjoy it all the more for doing so. 

Below I've posted a few photos from the venues I've covered weddings at, so expect a follow-up to this post at some point next year.  

Until then, 

R x

 

 

Collaboration - A Vintage Woodland Wedding

The day finally arrived! 

After being rained off on the original day we had planned to do the shoot, this time the sun was out and the light was just perfect.  As much as we'd talked about and planned this, there were certain elements that had been kept secret even from me, which I suppose is fair enough given that social media drives our businesses these days, and you don't want to give it all away before the big day. 

So we arrived at the wooded area Vicki had chosen as our location, unpacked and trekked with all of our gear into the woods.  Luckily, there were no bears, but plenty of wild mushrooms, slimy logs (yuck!) and mosquitos - I have the bites on my arms and ass to prove it.  Back to the photos.  Once we'd got everything to the site, it was immediately clear in my mind that we had to recreate a pseudo-Alice in Wonderland/Mad Hatter's Tea Party set.  

If you're wanting this theme for your wedding, believe me, we can pull it off for you!  With Vicki's glorious vintage china and Lucie's mind blowing cake creations, how on earth could you go wrong?!  If you're in any doubt, just take a look at their pages (links below).  I suppose you'll be wanting to see some photos...well feast your eyes! 

Until next time, 

R x

Vintage China Hire - www.grannyschinacupboard.co.uk

Stunning wedding cakes - www.lucielovestobake.com